# The Relationship Singularity

> A shared movement for founders and researchers who think that we can understand human personality much better, and use that understanding to match people with their social soul mates.

## Researcher

Matthew Fisher
Email: staff@relationshipsingularity.org
Website: https://relationshipsingularity.org
Twitter: https://x.com/relation_sing
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsingularity

## Upcoming In-Person Events

In-person matchmaking events this Fall, used to build anonymous datasets to improve matchmaking.

- Find Your SF Twin! — San Francisco, August 29, 2026 — https://luma.com/2o6rs7no
- Psyop Hackathon: Social Matchmaking — Austin, TX, September 4, 2026 — https://luma.com/1ghae59p
- Find Your NYC Twin! — New York City, September 19, 2026 — https://luma.com/rqr51mhr

## Content Files
- Talk transcript (2hr, Nov 2024): https://relationshipsingularity.org/2024talktranscript.txt
- Roadmap PDF: https://relationshipsingularity.org/roadmap.pdf
- Sitemap: https://relationshipsingularity.org/sitemap.xml
- Papers from the first Love Symposium (machine-readable): https://relationshipsingularity.org/papers.json

## Sections
- People & companies working on this: https://relationshipsingularity.org/#directory
- Ideas & feedback: https://relationshipsingularity.org/#dreams
- Papers: https://relationshipsingularity.org/#papers

Submissions (moderated; approved entries appear on the site and via GET /api/approved/{directory|paper|dream}):
- POST /api/submissions/directory  {name, description, url?, category?, email?}
- POST /api/submissions/paper      {title, url, authors?, year?, venue?, note?, email?}
- POST /api/submissions/dream      {dream, name?, url?, email?}

## Institutional Vehicles

- NeurIPS 2026 Workshop: AI for Human Connection (AI4HC) — Sydney, December 2026
  https://relationshipsingularity.org/ai4hc
- Love Symposium — San Francisco conference on technology and human connection
  https://symposium.love
- experiments.dating — Live experiments in AI-mediated connection
  https://experiments.dating

## Press & Media

- New York Times: "Can You Optimize Love?" (January 2026)
  https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/06/style/love-symposium-artificial-intelligence-keeper.html
- The Daily (NYT Podcast): "Is the Swipe Era Over?"
  https://open.spotify.com/episode/5wJkd1DI5BtpWPXDuVqrLx
- Vectors of Mind Podcast: "AI, Dating Apps, and the Future of Relationships"
  https://open.spotify.com/episode/3r8tb1PZzVtqJIdR4cOiPw
- Full 2-hour research talk (YouTube):
  https://youtu.be/2pQrl_LsjKU